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Comment on No Romance WITHOUT FINANCE by R

Tue, 22 Jul 2008 03:04:17 +0000

Richard Simmons in a pumpum shorts? oh hell to the no!!! If i’m jst looking to chill with a dude, honestly i don’t care about none of the above, because you’re not coming to my home and i’m not going to your room next to your momma’s in her project apartment. i don’t care what you drive as long as you drive and you better at least have enough money to take me out, even if it’s just TGIF’s…now if i’m looking for something more substantial, then yeah…you gotta live on your own, because you will not try to take up second residence in my spot, you should drive something decent, have a job that does not entail a uniform or working in the mail room waiting for Bob on 19 to get you into the training program. If you’re working 10 jobs, when oh when are we supposed to spend time together? huh? never!…yeah i thought so…next!!!

Comment on FAGETaBouIT by 2partssoul

2partssoul — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 06:58:08 +0000

sounds like you have a boss like Ms. Piggy, is it time for the big guns???? Smack a ho with a pork face!

Comment on Something to think about by 2partssoul

2partssoul — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 06:56:04 +0000

and I just realized that my comment had nothing to do with the post. I guess its sad that black women aren’t getting married up, but whats the rush. Its better to wait forever for the right one then to settle for a nigga in the way.

I think thats on the topic.

Comment on Something to think about by 2partssoul

2partssoul — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 06:54:03 +0000

Whats the deal with marriage any way. People spend so much time trying to make it to the “big day” that they forget all the shit that happend afterwards.

Most married people don’t have FOCUS…

Comment on No Romance WITHOUT FINANCE by buda

buda — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 20:42:44 +0000

I knew that would raise an eyebrow or two! I agree …… I agree with you

Comment on No Romance WITHOUT FINANCE by FallenStarNBabylon

FallenStarNBabylon — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 19:52:57 +0000

here we go… YOu slay ME!

BUDA: “whatever you want in a mate I hope you are bringin the same (dont eat at this table if you aint brought nothing)!”

T: I bring my A game, EVERY time I COMMIT to a realationship; and with that said, I don’t bring anything less than what I demand from a mate. FYI.

Whether those women live at home with Mommy, Daddy, four kids and pet Pig named Chester – MEN WILL ALWAYS pick them up for one reason or another and deal with those women. Sometimes things work out despite her lack of $$. BUT as soon as that pet pig pisses on his new Jordans she and her mini farm will be back home to mommy while the man is on to the next! That’s a choice they make (notice the word CHOICE).

We all seem to get ourselves into precarious situations for one reason or another. However, to those individuals who strive and expect more from themselves and those whom they allow into their lives, conversations regarding finances should ALWAYS occur as we both agree. Once again, I don’t want a mate who HAS to work all those jobs and is still broke in the following areas we both detailed above, that’s just MY porogative ( I can do what I want to do!). That to ME is a CLEAR indicator that – that man’s finances look as good as Richard Simmons in polkadot pumpum shorts.

We all have choices and if you choose not to ask, well please believe a person with a fucked up credit score ain’t about to offer it up. Instead of asking her if she swallows, make it a bigger priority to ask miss thing when’s the last time she pulled up her Experian report. Not knowing those particulars reflects more poorly on you than it does her.

I’m nosy, so please believe I ask potential suitoes these particulars within the first few weeks; as well as can I cope a feel of the goodies. The more I know, the further we BOTH can go.

Comment on No Romance WITHOUT FINANCE by buda

buda — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 18:47:32 +0000

women kill me!!! I can feel your pain with these nothing ass dudes, but what about broke women there are droves of them! whatever you want in a mate I hope you are bringin the same (dont eat at this table if you aint brought nothing)! I see chicks at my job talkin about what a man drives and how he dresses, but they stay at home with there mom and drive a hyndai accent (carnote one one of those is like 100 bucks a month) Dont get me wrong, some men are dead wrong for the shit that we try to pull, but I dont lie anymore (notice anymore) I tell a chick from the door I’m broke I have my own place, car and savings account and 401k, but GOD DAMN I’M STRUGGLIN LIKE A MUGG! Most of them appreciate my honesty …. I think most of them think I’m lying, but its the truth… Most realtionships end over money issues and 90% of our problems are financial all this should be disgusted in the beggining … Cuz its a damn shame watchin women I work with hiding colthes they bought from there husbands in the trucks of there cars!! The way a person spends money should be known just like knowing if that person smokes or she is a swallower or not! We need to know!

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Comment on FAGETaBouIT by R

Thu, 17 Jul 2008 19:58:18 +0000

I feel you my sister…i too am at a job that i could not longer care less about. not that I want to be fired, but if they call me in and offer me a nice lil package, i’ll take it, say thank you grand wizard and off to the bank with my check before they cancel it. i come in, do just enough not to get fired, but not an ounce more. they figure that because i’m an admin, when they’re giving out retention packages that i don’t need to be included…really? well if i quit, i wanna see who’s gonna do all of this admin stuff that on one wants to do in the first damn place.
I’m just tired, sick and tired and sick of being tired.